Frustrated and Depressed

[Eagle94-A1]

I have a Scout aging out in less than 30 days.  He transferred into the troop a while ago, and his former troop was not great with paperwork. He is so close to Eagle, but I think he has given up. The family told me that if he didn't get Eagle by the end of the charter year, he would not be renewing. Then last minute turned in paperwork for scholarship to renew. Waiting to hear back about scholarship, but have not seen him since.

I've known the Scout since before Tigers. Families had been close in years past, but something happened between my sons and him, specifically related to some online game they played. And we have slowly drifted apart since. I know it is his decision to pursue Eagle or not with the time remaining. But it still frustrating, and a little depressing. I have gone to bat for him in his old troop, and the current troop. I know the challenges they family has faced over the years and have helped him in a variety of ways to the point that I have upset committee members protecting the Scout. If I have worked with this scout more than any other, except my own kids, over the past 30+ years, and it is upsetting to see him come so far, and not finish.

I know Eagle is not the ultimate goal of Scouting. I know he will take the lessons learned, and apply them throughout his life. I know. I know that despite the challenges he has overcome, he will go far.

But why I am getting frustrated and depressed, especially when I have not felt like this with other Scouts int he past?

 

[swilliams]

Because you care?  And maybe because it's extra-rewarding to see a scout that has faced challenges be able to accomplish the 'top achievement'?  It also sounds like you know this scout a bit more than perhaps others.

A scout in our Troop went from not being able to write a paragraph without the lines drifting across the page, to taking AP European History.  I think it's natural for us to root for the 'underdog' and want them to reach 'the pinnacle'.