InquisitiveScouter Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 8 minutes ago, Navybone said: everyone need to take a look, have a conversation with those experiencing racism to better understand it, and be brave confront it when you see it. Remove the log from your own eye before you concentrate on the speck of sawdust in mine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Navybone Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 4 minutes ago, InquisitiveScouter said: Remove the log from your own eye before you concentrate on the speck of sawdust in mine. I did not imply anything. I am not black, never have been. But what I did do was try to understand the challenges my peers have undergone. Men and women who I know well and respect. It was eye opening what they have gone through. Is there something wrong with that concept, something we don’t want to teach our scouts about understanding and empathy? It’s far easier to just think there are no problems, to think there is nothing more you can learn, to say “don’t have that problem here”. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Navybone Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 18 minutes ago, InquisitiveScouter said: So, you tolerate everything except intolerance? Yep. Intolerance is nothing more than unwillingness to accepts views, beliefs or behaviors different than ones own. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InquisitiveScouter Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 4 minutes ago, Navybone said: Yep. Intolerance is nothing more than unwillingness to accepts views, beliefs or behaviors different than ones own. Your own words convict you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Navybone Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 Just now, InquisitiveScouter said: Your own words convict you. If you are accusing me of being intolerant about people who refuse to admit that there are race issues in this nation and staying the course, doing what we have always been doing is enough - guilty as charged. I support the BSA's effort to shape the minds and develop today's youth to lead tomorrow. Tolerance, diversity, and inclusions are concepts that I wholeheartedly support. I also wholeheartedly support an organization that is willing to take an honest look at itself and admit it can do better. That is part of an organization I want to be part of. I'll leave this last note because I feel as if I am trying to push back against the wind. I find the comments of others to be very revealing, but I am not going to try to change anyone's mind. We get from our scouts what we put in, what we teach and show by example. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InquisitiveScouter Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 3 minutes ago, Navybone said: people who refuse to admit that there are race issues No one here has said anything remotely resembling what you are attributing to people... Just bizarre... 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post MattR Posted June 18, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted June 18, 2020 Hi everyone, it's me, again, a moderator. It seems that the temperature on social media has gone up in the past week. I've seen some really ugly things posted on facebook recently by scouters I know. Bad enough that I'm wondering why I should even be in scouting anymore, much less trying to keep the peace on this forum. But then I remember that scouting is good for the world and I try for another day. While things are not too ugly here, I see people talking past each other. Buried down in the core of this argument is something worth discussing but instead people get hung up on peripheral comments that were either not well thought out or taken the wrong way. Either way they aren't helping getting any sort of solution to the core of the problem. What is very clear to me is that before anyone can deal with bigotry they have to first master Courteous. 6 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qwazse Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 Ahem ... switch off ad hominem mode ... check ... proceeding ... One very rewarding action that I did with my crew: during a game/pizza afternoon that they hosted on MLK Day, I had them read one of his speeches ("I have a dream") out loud. Each scout taking a passage. Neither they, nor their guests (who I could see were visibly uncomfortable with the direction I was taking them), nor, I think, the adult who was helping me ... had ever read it in full. (Well, the Italian scout might have, but not in English.) Seeing as it is being sorely misquoted these days, it would be a very good idea for your scouts to take a moment to read "Two Americas" in full. Same things for the writings of Washington and Lincoln -- and even Columbus -- on their days. R for Reference --- the first real step in teaching a scout to master any skill. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mashmaster Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 What I personally do and position this for the youth is that we will always be non-discriminating and inclusive to people. </Ramble on> There are many things that we have done over time to people that are well intentioned but the received perception may not be received in how we would have liked or expected. e.g. someone that has lost weight "you look great, good job on losing weight. You must feel healthier now". The comment might seem to you to be positive but the reception might be "You have been unhealthy and you are finally losing weight." it is kinda like the telephone game. Many scouts and scouters have lived somewhat sheltered lives being part of the majority and being surrounded by the same. "Let's all say the lords prayer, Johnny I know you are Jewish feel free to not say it". Johnny is now singled out and viewed as different. much different from saying "let's all take a moment to have silent prayer and reflection". Or let's have an interfaith service and represent all. Good forbid we go back to the good old days where Chinese/Black/Mexican... characters in movies are played by White actors in make up. Think the Kung Fu series...... what a message to send to Asian's about that casting. Most military people I have talked with seemed to have very open race acceptance because they are thrust into situations to get the job done with others. They do seem to be very pro-police and take a lot to question what potential negative things that go on. I would assume that is because to the repeated reliance on structure. I can respect military, police, protesters, religious, athiest.... and attempt to judge on the individual level. We all have our failings and need to attempt to listen and change them. </Ramble Off> 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InquisitiveScouter Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 (edited) 24 minutes ago, mashmaster said: and attempt to judge on the individual level Well said, mash. "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character." Character is individual, not racial... Character is what we in the BSA are supposed to be aiming at... And as to the police, I do question them. I do want justice for anyone hurt or killed by the police unlawfully. But again, individually... I see too many examples, in public, of police who act as if they are above the law, rather than servants of the people under the law. Edited June 18, 2020 by InquisitiveScouter Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Troop75Eagle Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 15 hours ago, BAJ said: When I was a scout in the 1980s, I was a member of a troop that was not diverse, not because of anything that the Scouts had done, but because I grew up in an area where African American families were redlined out of their ability to live for an extended period of time. I didn't know that as a young scout, though as I got somewhat older and learned some of the complicated history of race and politics in the area I came to understand that the way things were when I was a kid depended on things that had been done many years before. It wasn't a value judgement about my troop or its actions, it wasn't a judgement about me, but the fact that it wasn't my fault didn't make it any less the reality and didn't make it any less unfair. I heard stories about issues of racism in Scouting, and I certainly witnessed events that made clear to me that the legacy of what had been done intentionally before -- and the reality of things that were still happening then -- meant that there were still forces and realities that affected some members of society in ways that I was not affected as a white learning-to-be-a-man. As a result, I can say I was proud when I received that email from BSA a few days ago, and -- though some have said that creating a new merit badge isn't substantial -- I thought that was actually a valuable step BSA could take in accordance with what Scouting is supposed to do, educate youth into valuable members of society. The requirements that are put in place are a statement by the organization of what is important. Swimming requirements have been in place for a long time. Sustainability became a merit badge when that was viewed as important. And now something focused on diversity and inclusion is being added as important. The goal of the program is to teach, and -- if the new badge is designed well, which given the references to American Cultures and American Heritage, I expect it to be -- I believe that it could make a real contribution to the youth that earn it understanding the complicated history of race in this country, since ignorance of that complexity is not a help in finding a path forward. I know that some of the merit badges I took as a scout had a lasting impact on my thinking, and I have watched my daughter grow through some of the citizenship and other merit badges she has been working on as well. In other places this has been characterized as a knee jerk reaction, but I am not sure that I see that. Having returned to scouting not too long ago since BSA opened to my daughter and because I agreed with the organization's changes to become more tolerant with respect to sexual orientation, I was planning on going to the Wood Badge session before coronavirus disrupted it -- since I felt that it was important that I learned what the organization thought I needed to know to do a good job. One of my mentors related to our current troop, a very long tenured Scouter, gave me a heads up that an element of diversity and inclusion had been part of the Wood Badge curriculum for some time now, and that I should think about how that would be part of my ticket -- though since I was working with a female troop, my ticket might be viewed as having that already as a part of it. So I don't see this as knee jerk, even if it is responding to events that are happening in real time. I also would push back on the characterizations of the content of that statement being anti-police and so somehow BSA not being "pro-police," and -- furthermore -- push back on setting up discussion as a conflict between people protesting for their rights and law enforcement. The history of policing in this country is also complicated, with extreme good and extreme ill. Use of force does fall more heavily on some than others, and the outcomes of interactions between law enforcement and individuals can differ based on more than just their behavior when that interaction happens. And the legacy of what law enforcement has been used for in our country's history, like the past events that led my troop to be all white, still have effects that persist to the present day. And before you tell me I don't understand police, I do. I work with police officers as part of my job. In watching through even the imperfect window that posted cell phone video has given into what has happened in the recent protests, I have seen much to be amazingly proud of in the officers who have successfully both protected public order and protected citizens' exercise of their Constitutional rights. That doesn't surprise me given some of the men and women I know who are officers and since the oath most of those officers took was to uphold the Constitution, so they have a responsibility to do both. But I have also seen behavior by officers that I cannot defend, even as someone who has much more knowledge about police tactics, equipment, and procedures than the average person and is less likely to jump to conclusions based on always incomplete evidence. I also am surprised to have seen in these postings over the last few days a thread of argument that it should be ok for things to be different in troops across the country, and that top down intervention to impose something like this new merit badge is somehow inappropriate. That has surprised me because, in so many other discussions, the argument seems to always be that there should be uniformity and fundamental standards, with statements like "the program is the program," "units that aren't doing the Patrol Method properly are doing it wrong," and "things must be done with the spirit of Scouting in mind." Some of that push back was in response to some posts of mine where I was asking questions that were interpreted as pushing boundaries beyond what scouting should be. But now, when this is the issue, local variation is now presented as the ideal rather than undermining the program. That troubles me and that, as much as anything, was why I came back to post -- since some of the push back I'd gotten before had led me to the conclusion that perhaps I wasn't as welcome at this campfire as I thought it was and should limit myself to lurking in search of tidbits of information that National hadn't yet gotten around to disseminating broadly to volunteers. When I came back to Scouting, I had been impressed by how things were changing. When my daughter said she wanted to join Scouts BSA -- since she'd been more interested in the stories I told about when I was a scout than what she'd heard about what our local girl scout troops were doing -- I actually sat down to have a sober talk with her about what she might be getting into. I prepared her for, frankly, discrimination because of how people might react to the change of co-ed Scouting based on what I remembered from my time as a scout years ago. Interesting that in an organization supposedly fully centered in the Scout Oath and Law, that was my concern going in. But she wasn't worried, and - at least so far - it turns out she was right. Even at a camporee far afield from our largely suburban area, the few small female troops who were there didn't get any more flak than the boy troops did, and when some came their way they -- and the scouts from their "brother troop" -- stood side by side and, in both a friendly and courteous way, explained to the source that they weren't living up to the Scout Oath and Law. And subsequently, when she started working on Scouting Heritage merit badge and was interviewing some of the people who were involved in the forming of their troop, I got more insight into why: when it was being discussed, there was actually some opposition among some adults to the idea of starting a female troop, so the committee decided to ask some members of the existing boy troop what they thought about the idea. And they advocated for doing it because they thought it was important. So, in this case, the "progressiveness" that I have heard criticized elsewhere on this board, with the implication it was coming from adults like me, was scout led. Which I have also heard here is how it should be done. Do I think a new merit badge will solve the complexities of race in America? No, but it is a step to provide an opportunity for some of the next generation to at least be exposed to some of the complicated history about it and think it through for themselves. My daughter learned more from one of the citizenship merit badge requirements that required her to rewrite a passage from one of our Founding documents in her own words than a week of some of her classes in school. In the scouts I have had the privilege to help support over the last few months, I have seen extremely intelligent and impressive individuals. I doubt that all will reach the same conclusions as they do the requirements of such a merit badge as I might, and I doubt that -- whatever the political persuasion of the author of the pamphlet -- the conclusions they will reach can be predetermined. But, it can expose them to some history that they might not encounter elsewhere, and then they will decide what they think for themselves. And, just as I think regarding the requirements of many other merit badges, we will all be better for that. I appreciate your thoughtful response. Instead of cherry picking, I will say there is much good to what you have written. Thoughtful, measured and Reasoned thinking is a welcomed approach here. The entire focus of this online series of forums is to maximize the scope of possibilities for successful scouting in times of change. That can only be done by acknowledging the experiences and reasoned thinking others bring to the table. Many of the comments have been borderline disrespectful and offer no solutions. We (Generally) might disagree on methods of successful scouting and content or methodology of the program, but that is ok. Variations of useful thoughts and opinions are welcomed. it can take a while to carefully write a balanced response and I want to applaud you on doing just that. Please keep doing it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eagle1993 Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 7 hours ago, RememberSchiff said: I was not aware of the source "young scouters" but according to NYT https://www.nytimes.com/2020/06/17/us/boy-scouts-diversity-inclusion-eagle.html Thanks for finding the additional info. This circulated around Scouts L and the initial poster indicated "young scouters" … I guess 29 is young to some 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RememberSchiff Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 5 minutes ago, Eagle1993 said: Thanks for finding the additional info. This circulated around Scouts L and the initial poster indicated "young scouters" … I guess 29 is young to some Young Green Bar Bill wrote the first American Handbook for Patrol Leaders when he was 29. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sentinel947 Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 1 hour ago, Eagle1993 said: Thanks for finding the additional info. This circulated around Scouts L and the initial poster indicated "young scouters" … I guess 29 is young to some 29 is absolutely young.... because I'm quickly closing in on it. 😂 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InquisitiveScouter Posted June 18, 2020 Share Posted June 18, 2020 24 minutes ago, Sentinel947 said: 29 is absolutely young I am celebrating the 24th anniversary of my 29th birthday this year! 29 is a great age to keep for the rest of your life 😜 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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