howarthe Posted August 24, 2012 Share Posted August 24, 2012 The biggest difference that I see between the girl scouts and the boy scouts is size. Girl scout troops are very small and there is nothing like a pack committee to help you out. There is a service unit but that is more like a district. In my experience a girl scout troop is two leaders and eight girls all in the same grade in school. When one girl dropped out I sort of scrambled around to find a replacement because there is a real danger in having the troop evaporate. My daughter was in three troops her first three years of scouting. The second biggest difference I see is drama. I have attended troop meetings with my daughter during which it seems to me that everyone is having a great time only to be told in the car on the way home that everyone was mean and she doesn't want to do scouting anymore. With cubs the drama is all external and easy to see. In my sons den it usually takes the form of a sword fight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Basementdweller Posted August 24, 2012 Share Posted August 24, 2012 the girl scout leaders run the units like kingdoms.....You are good enough to join, you are, you are, you are not. Troops are run on the whim of the leader.... Zero accountability of the unit leaders... Never ever voice an opinion to a leader You are not qualified to be a leader because you are male. You are not from our school/neighborhood/social group/race/religion/financial class you cannot join our troop Oh call the council office they will get back to you with a unit.......Been making that call the first monday of every month now for 2 years. Oh lets do this crafty thing.....Sell cookies..... BTW where did all that cookie and dues money go????? Leader quits the unit is dead. None of the GS troops I have seen own anything of any significance. No tents, outdoor kitchens.....Nothing. The only thing the GSUSA has over the BSA is a national recongizable fundraiser. Beyond that it is a train wreck..... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tgrimstead Posted August 24, 2012 Share Posted August 24, 2012 Agreed on GSUSA Troops are run on the whims of the leaders. We tried to get our girls into Troops only to get a run around from local council. Years later we started our own along with Cub Dens attached to the Pack at the church we meet. ( We're unsocialized Home Schoolers.) Our GS Troop has multiple age groups however. Weirdest thing I've noticed about GSUSA is the no tag-a-longs / siblings policy for GSUSA events. Seems kinda not family friendly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smoothmom Posted August 25, 2012 Share Posted August 25, 2012 My co-leader and I have never told anybody that they were not welcome. Prehaps this is one reason why we have two troops, each with 20+ girls.Another reason-leader quit, so we took over. If a man wants to lead a troop, why not? There are just things that have to be considered with overnights, etc. Cookie money helps subsidize camping, trips (UN, stables) etc. One of the troops at my church is planning a trip to Africa. Growing up, I remember troops being age/level specific. I went from a Brownie troop, to a Junior troop, to a Cadette troop.When I returned to Girl Scouting as an adult, I was surprised to hear "1st grade Brownies". "4th grade Juniors", etc. Our local council returns phone calls, and is supportive of new leaders. We go camping, we go on trips, we do service projects, we visit the local nursing home every, we support the animal shelter, the older girls go on midnight runs with the church. We would love to have more leaders male or female, however, everybody is "to busy". We do tell people that if you want your daughter to be a scout, we would like you to be a leader. Most of them say OK, then we never see them again. Oh, by the way my co-leader and I each have one child; a son. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frank10 Posted August 25, 2012 Share Posted August 25, 2012 smoothmom: Please tel me you are somewhere near Waterbury CT. My daughter's unit is a Snack and a craft unit. One field trip/party each year (candy factory party this year). Other thna that, they have never left the room they meet in. Worst part is they meet at the YMCA right up stairs from the pool... Maybe? maybe? nope. (men need not apply). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qwazse Posted August 25, 2012 Share Posted August 25, 2012 soothmom, do you go camping year 'round? If you ask your HS age youth what they want to do for a December activity (the closing weekend of deer season being all hat's available) and one of them says I haven't gone backpacking in forever ... Do you suck it up and make it happen? Or, do you go with the majority who will probably just want to go skating and maybe shopping one Saturday afternoon? That's the difference that I observe between Boy Scouts/Venturers and GS units. I don't by into How's drama difference. I've seen the same from boys. Things may be going smoothly,then boom! (Usually when I finally get in my bunk for an afternoon nap.) But maybe my crowd is a little older. Or it could be the group culture. I know my daughter had it rough on sports teams until about 8th grade. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fred8033 Posted August 25, 2012 Share Posted August 25, 2012 Size is the obvious difference but I don't think the significant difference. Biggest difference I've noticed is variety. Most Cub Scout dens do outings, attend pack meetings and cub camp. Though quality varies greatly, activities are very similar. BUT ... Girl Scout troops vary greatly driven, I think, by the troop leader. Some might camp. Some might be more craft oriented. Some might be school work like. Others might be yet different again. Each troop is different.(This message has been edited by fred8033) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScoutNut Posted August 25, 2012 Share Posted August 25, 2012 >>"one of them says I haven't gone backpacking in forever ... Do you suck it up and make it happen? Or, do you go with the majority who will probably just want to go skating and maybe shopping one Saturday afternoon?">> I don't know if any other Troops would blow off what the majority of the Troop wants to do in favor of what a single girl wants, but our Troop would not. The GIRLS make the decisions. If on the same weekend, 6 out of 7 girls want to go skating, and 1 girl wants to go backpacking, our girls would talk it out among themselves, and if that 1 girl could not convince 3 others to change their vote to backpacking then skating it would be. Backpacking would be put on the back burner until there was sufficient girl support. It seems only fair to me, however, your definition of fair might vary. Our Troop never turned away anyone, adult, or youth. We had both male, and female leaders. While the majority of the girls were all from our local parish school, we did have some from the local public schools as well. All of our girls were in the same grade. We did at one point take in the girls from the grade ahead of our girls because their leader quit. They stayed with us for 2 years and then, when they bridged to the next level, they started their own Troop again (a parent finally stepped up). We did a lot of different things with the girls. Including camping, canoeing, horseback riding, sledding, and skiing, and service projects of all kinds. Girl Scout Troops/Groups are more independently run than BSA units are. That is because they are not "owned" by a CO. Every unit is an independent entity. >>"BTW where did all that cookie and dues money go?????" 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qwazse Posted August 25, 2012 Share Posted August 25, 2012 SN, Not so much nitpicking as highlighting a core difference, as Howe requested. And (regarding the drama) pointing out that things may not be all that different. I think that that is the biggest difference ... a BSA unit leader will opt to regard highly the youth who are desperate for a physical challenge -- especially if they are in a position of responsibility. (To a limit ... the crew president who wanted us to visit a rogue state had that idea swept under a rug!). The troop will either form a venture patrol, or a standing patrol will start planning unique excursions, or the crew will form a sub-committee for an activity that may only attract 4 youth. Especially with our crew, it's rare that everyone on the roster is in the same place at the same time. A GSA unit leader, as you just described, will try to have the girls come to a consensus on an activity that will attract the most youth. The end product? From what I've seen from merging the different cultures into a venturing crew, the BSA bred tend to toss out grand ideas, the GSA bred work to bring everybody on board and pay real close attention to someone feeling left out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScoutNut Posted August 25, 2012 Share Posted August 25, 2012 Part of the problem with having different sub-groups of a GS Troop doing different things is that a GS Troop often just isn't big enough to make that viable. Add to that the fact that many parents are not willing to take on the responsibility (and training) for extra activities, and assume that the Troop leader will just do twice as much, makes sub-group activity a rare thing. Another difference between the programs is that GSUSA council summer camp is rarely a Troop activity. Councils offer a variety of themed camp programs, and girls sign up individually for the one that interests them. Special trips are the same. Similarity - Religious emblems. GSUSA encourages girls to earn the Religious Emblem of their faith, and to wear it on their uniform vest/sash. As with BSA, girls are expected to get parental permission, and work on their emblem programs outside of GS Troop time. GSUSA has also come out with the "My Promise My Faith" awards. These awards can be earned each year, and are for girls who want to explore their faith in the context of Scouting, and the Girl Scout Law. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Basementdweller Posted August 26, 2012 Share Posted August 26, 2012 So what your saying is the GSUSA council took my daughters money when the troop folded?????/ She sold 500 boxes door to door Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScoutNut Posted August 26, 2012 Share Posted August 26, 2012 ">>So what your saying is the GSUSA council took my daughters money when the troop folded?????" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qwazse Posted August 26, 2012 Share Posted August 26, 2012 In BSA, the charter org has claim to the unit supplies, including $$s. If the charter org folds???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Basementdweller Posted August 26, 2012 Share Posted August 26, 2012 Your wrong scoutnut..... The CO owns all of the units equipment and the bank accounts..... I am required to use the CO's 403 numbers not the councils when opening a bank account or changing the signatory's. I have never used the councils 403 for anything..... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Callooh! Callay!1428010939 Posted August 26, 2012 Share Posted August 26, 2012 The acronyms read differently. "G'soosa" sounds cooler than "b'saa." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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