I have a saying I tell all my scouts. "With every choice, comes consequences." Every time they make a choice, be it cooking, cleaning, merit badges, campsite selection or behavior choices, they all have consequences. At summer camp last week, two of my scouts decided to prank call the operator at the camps payphone. I quickly found out from the other scouts. The younger scout came back to camp to face the Scoutmaster rath, and the older one decided to go to the waterfront to participate in the water carnivile. Each had different consequences, both wrote a 500 word essay, on why I don't use the pay phone in that way. They both came up with additional punishment, added length on the next rank and losing the merit badges completed that week. Both had to give their essays to their parents on return from camp.
My point is, that my committee and parents know that this helps them grow and mature. They are responsible for their actions, and have to face the consequences.