I don't know how to not make this long, please bare with me..
My older son, now 13 started as a Tiger and crossed over from our local Pack to the Troop 2 years ago. I was his Webelos leader for both years, we had a great team of dedicated, seasoned leaders, and because of that I didn't get really involved in the administrative stuff..Now, 2yrs later, my 6yr old joined the Pack in August, right away, I knew something was terribly wrong. At first I thought it was me, so we missed meetings off/on. My confusion increased when leaders kept changing.In Dec. we went on a Pack campout- listening to the CC "F...ing" this and that, all the leaders smoking- not "out of sight", screaming constantly at the boys, not enforcing the buddy system, and so on.I was ready to quit,but I felt some loyalty to the Pack. On 1/15, our 1st Den meet after the holidays, the parents were in a room with the boys literally bouncing off the walls, while the leaders were in another room having a heated argument. After 40mins, we were told "meeting over" , the CC and Asst CM quit. I said "look I'll take over the Tigers(my son's group). The following week, I had a good meeting (the CM didn't show, so the other leaders had to scramble to put something together), but at the committee meet I knew what was next- this past week the CM quit. Another Tiger mom stepped up as CM and I as ASST CM and we have a small GOOD group of parents(about 6)willing to be actively involved. Problem is the Pack's belongings have been tossed from one house to another-we got them back, but it doesn't look like there's been any record keeping for at least a year. When I took over the Tigers on 1/22, I was given a binder full of blank records and yet was told that the CM had done all the achievements for the boys to get their Tiger badges(except mine because we missed meetings). My problem is this- none of the parents have been in scouting long enough to know how things go, including the CM, so their all looking to me to guide them. And I know what the pace of the calendar should be, but I never did the organizing of the activities, I didn't interact with District, I didn't do the Administrative duties of the Pack. I was just a good Den leader and turned in the dues and attendance records and awards to the CC and someone else took care of it.Now, we're rolling forward with so much happening- Pinewood derby, B&G, a big campout in March. So any suggestions would be welcome and I had a question specifically about the boys' records- aren't they supposed to get to the District somehow?Thank you, CCrumpton