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Chapter 11 Announced - Part 9 - Confirmation Hearing
PaleRider replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Didn't Kosnoff get in trouble for tweeting what was going on during one of the hearings? -
It's the past mistakes ie the only reason we are here today.And as far as future boys being affected by the past wouldn't be if the past had been dealt with the moment it happened.And all of that rest squarely on the BSA.As far as parents not wanting to prosucate is their decision that shouldn't be an excuse for them not doing any/everything in their power to prevent this.They may have done some work to prevent but with 82,500 claims is very telling they didn't.
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No it doesn't have to be war of words.But the fact is this is all part of this bankruptcy.I don't expect all of the guys that made it through the Scouting experience to understand what we deal with on a daily basis's. Unfortunately there isn't a on and off switch.So I will just crawl back into my silence the very place I've been for the past 40 years.Thatvway I don't have to worry about my emotions stepping on others feelings.✌️
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They keep a damn book with names and hid them.And still today are fighting to keep them all from being released.Here is my bigger paint brush for 40 damn years my life has been pure hell because those suit and ties for over 100 years did nothing but protect them and the abusers not us.Now unless you were abused don't preach to me.You haven't a damn clue as to how I'm feeling.Sobyou can take up for these clowns all you want to.BUT THE FACT IS THEY FAILED US.THEY PREACHED TO US WHAT A BOY SCOUT REPRESENTS WHILE THEY DID NOTHING TO PROTECT US. NO NEED FOR YOU TO REPLY BECAUSE IM DONE WITH THIS CONVERSATION.AND IF I RUFFLED YALLS FEATHERS TO BAD CAUSE EVERYTHING IVE SAID IS THE TRUTH.
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What I can't understand is how can adults run a program and have knowledge of kids being abused and they turn a blind eye on it.Put a name in a book out the book as far back in the filing cabinet as they can.Kick the pedophile out and not call the law.Thats where I'm hung up at. I just can't understand what kind of people do that. Cause I can say without a doubt if the tables were turned and I was the adult that had knowledge of the abuse I would be kicking somebody's ass all the way to the jailhouse. They didn't care back then and today we are nothing more than a claim number to them. I haven't figured out who outside of Scouts I will have to worry the hell out of to keep the BSA in check about them doing any and everything in their power to stop this from happening to any other kids.I don't want anyone to have to go through pure hell until their 45 -50 years old before they even think about figuring out what's what.I thought about writing congress about this but it will only fall on deaf ears.If anyone has ideas on who I can worry the hell out of to make it happen please share your thoughts. BECAUSE THIS HAS TO STOP.
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I'm beginning to wonder if filing a claim was even worth reliving the past.Its clear as day that BSA don't give no more of a damn about us today than they gave 40-50 years ago about us!;!. Sorry in advance if my comment is posted in the wrong place.Ive been clean and sober for 4 1/2 years now and I've just about fell off the wagon a couple of times since opening up those old wounds They say time heals all wounds,that may be true but not at all true for the abused,raped or whatever you call it. It's no easier today than it was when it happened. Again sorry if I shouldn't have posted here.Just needed to vent and ask for prayers that I can stay strong enough not to give in to them temptations
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Thank you for your support. I'm grateful to all the ones that went through BSA and wasn't harmed.I wouldn't wish this on anyone. Just remember us survivors have a different outlook on things Someone posted that we victems can't see the greater good of what BSA offers.I see the greater good it has been for a bunch of my friends and I'm happy they all made unharmed but all that will never change my outlook on the fact that BSA did not do their job and failed a bunch of guys. Thanks for your support hearing that means more than you will ever know Thank you
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It's always been about the money.Sure the BSA said I'm sorry this happened to all of you and it hurts our hearts that you guys went through this.Those statements were for the TV cameras and nothing more.If they truly cared they would have starting fixing this when the very first abuse was reported instead of writing the sick bastards name down in a notebook and shoving it in the very back of a filing cabinet.It was all about the dollar then and that's all it's about today.ive read others post about how much good the Scouts have done for a bunch of guys that went unharmed.They we're putting that above the fact that thousands of young boys life was ruined because the BOY SCOUTS DIDNT PRACTICE WHAT THEY TOLD US TO DO,HOW TO LIVE.ONE POST SAID THEY KNEW THE SUIT AND TIES IN THE NATIONAL OFFICE AND THEY WERE OUTSTANDING PEOPLE.WELL I DISAGREE BECAUSE ITS THOSE PEOPLE THAT ARE FIGHTING TOOTH AND NAIL TO KEEP THE REST OF THEIR LITTLE BLACK BOOKS WITH THE NAMES OF THE SICK BASTARDS NAMES THAT DID THIS.AND THE ONLY REASON THEY FILED FOR BANKRUPTCY IS BECAUSE THAT FIRE THATS BEEN BURNING OUT OF CONTROL FOR OVER 100 YEARS HAS REACHED THEIR BACK DOOR STEP,NOT BECAUSE OF THE VICTEMS. ESPECIALLY FOR THE VICTEMS THAT TOOK THEIR OWN LIFE BECAUSE A DAMN GROUP OF YOUR OUTSTANDING SUIT AND TIES IN TEXAS FAILED TO DO THEIR JOB. THE BOY SCOUTS WAS DEAD TO ME 40 YEARS AGO AFTER 3 YEARS OF ABUSE.THE DAY I QUIT AND BURNED EVERYTHING WITH BOY SCOUTS WRITTEN ON IT.AND BY GODS GRACE I MADE IT THROUGH 37 YEARS OF DRUG AND ALCOHOL ABUSE.I COULD CARE LESS IF THE BOY SCOUTS SHUTDOWN TODAY.THEY DIDNT CARE FOR US.I ALSO WOULD ASK EVERYONE THAT READS THIS TAKE A MOMENT OF SILENCE FOR THE ONES THAT DIDNT MAKE IT BECAUSE MONEY WAS MORE IMPORTANT TO THE SUITS AND TIES THAN WORKING TO PREVENT THE PURE HELL WE WENT/GOING THROUGH BECAUSE OF THEM.✌️ I would gladly give
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Lifelong impact of child sexual trauma (USA Today)
PaleRider replied to ThenNow's topic in Issues & Politics
Thanks for sharing. -
I agree that it may be some with memory problems but speaking only for me not being able to provide your troop number,the pedophile name,and what and where it happened is something not matter how hard I try to forget that is something that is in my head for life.Its hard to believe that if someone was truly abused you can't remember the who,when,where and what abuse happened.I really pray the fakes get weeded out.
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Chapter 11 Announced - Part 7 - Plan 5.0 - Voting/Confirmation
PaleRider replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
They covered up the sex abuse Protected the ones that done it for over 100 years SO EXCUSE ME IF WHILE I PUT DOWN THOSE SUIT AND TIES YOU CLAIM TO BE GREAT OUTATANDING PEOPLE. THEY WILL GET NO MERCY FROM ME -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 7 - Plan 5.0 - Voting/Confirmation
PaleRider replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Thank you brother.Im sorry this happened to all of us -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 7 - Plan 5.0 - Voting/Confirmation
PaleRider replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
This whole bankruptcy ordeal has never been about us victims.Its been all about the national and their money.Victems have over a hundred years of proof of that.They worry more about money and making sure their reputations not be tainted.The could care less about the 38 years of hell I went through because they did not protect me and all the others.Putting the names of these sick men didn't protect us it protected the pedophiles and the Boy Scouts Of America.They could care less about the victims if they did they would have started fixing this problem with the very first case that was reported.They didn't.I wasn't even going to file a claim but the more I researched and seen all the cover ups BSA are involved in I filed a claim.And at this point I will dance a jig if they get shutdown.And to be honest that is exactly what needs to I'm sorry but any establishment that is for kids that cover up these horrific crimes does not have any business running a program like BSA.THEY FAILED EVERY SINGLE VICTEM.SO GOOD RIDDANCE BSA.IM DAMAGED FOR LIFE NOT MATTER HOW MUCH THERAPY I GO THROUGH. -
Chapter 11 Announced - Part 7 - Plan 5.0 - Voting/Confirmation
PaleRider replied to Eagle1993's topic in Issues & Politics
Thanks guys for these updates. Much appreciated