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Someone raised a big issue with some Veteran Memorial Bricks outside one of our local grade schools. The area has become overgrown with weeds and names are no longer visible. The reason I bring this up now is that it started as an Eagle project to create a small memorial outside one of our local grade school, and selling engraved bricks paid for the project and the remainder of proceeds were donated to the VFW. its been 5 years now and the Scout's been in college for 3 years, and the troop folded 2 years ago. also in that time, the school went through 6 principals. so there's no one around who knows anything about it. While, the one woman is angry about the stones, the schools have been dealing with so much more this week. there have been shooter threats, and maintenance has been dealing with vandalized bathrooms.

I'm a terrible person at gussing the age of a kid. I flipped through my old highschool yearbook and saw my old SPL. My God, he looked 45 years old in 1991, and he had just turned 17. A couple o years ago, Our troop now had an SPL at 13 and our outgoing SPL just turned 18, so 5 years is a lot of time to mature and grow into Did you speak with the CO Troop's SM?to address your concerns? Regarding the lack of motivation on tasks, what kind of tasks. Was is a true lack of motivation, or was it a skill set gap and lack of training. Were the Scouts "Voluntold" they'd have to help, or was it cheerful service? I find that volunteers are generally more motivated than kids that are told they have to give up their weekend. Did you ask the Scouts what was going on? How they felt about how the day camp was going, what did they think the adults could have been doing better?

A couple of questions: What do you mean by "lack of discipline" do you mean that the PLC/older scouts, and the adult leadership do not hold scouts accountable for their actions or behavior? Or do you mean self discipline among the scouts? "what is the average age of the troop, does it skew older or younger? How old is the SPL, and how long have they been in the position? Were they appointed by the adult leadership, or were they elected by their peers? Our troop has had some SPLs that started out young and "green" and they've grown into themselves and grown into the role. How are they supported?

On one hand, I do find it unfortunate that the school, in an attempt to be more equitable among those wishing to use the facilities gave a seemingly greater burden of cost to the Brownies and I hope something can be worked out. However the one thing I do take issue with is the Brownies notion that "we leave the place better than when we found it so we don't require any additional custodial services" Unless they are cleaning the bathroom too, taking the garbage out to the dumpster, there would still be some degree of custodial work required. My wife's a teacher and whenever any extracurricular uses her classroom after hours, there's still a bit of extra clean up that needs to be done the next day, not to mention things like classroom supplies not put back where they were initially found

I like to call it "The ReasonTM" A Scout/youth is interested in Scouting and join Cub Scouts/Scouts BSA, but the parent doesn't want to be the bad guy and tell the kid "no", they need The ReasonTM so their child won't want to keep asking to join or keep attending. Some "Reasons" I've had to deal with: not safe enough; What do you mean this week's den meeting is at so-and-so's house?; it rained this weekend and you still kept camping; the Cub Adventure Day the pack went to served cheese pizza and my son only eats pepperoni. I've got a few more on the Troop side, but it was more far more prevalent on the Cub side.

About 10 years ago, I worked our Pack's recruitment table at a back-to-school night. One prospective parent said, "My son wants to do Cub Scouts, but I'm not sure it's safe enough for him." I explained explained that there are barriers to abuse, 2-deep leadership, no one on one contact with adults, everyone is trained, etc... She then gives me, "I don't just mean abuse, how are you going to keep my son safe." I added that as a parent of a Tiger, they would be present at everything and could see for themselves what goes on. Camping is family camping. The family never signed up, and despite the child's desire to join Scouting, the parent's were against it, and "Safety" was "The Reason" they gave their son why he couldn't do it, so we, Scouting" were the bad guys,.

Had an instance in our Cub Pack when I was CC. One Scout attacked another during a meeting and wouldn't get off until he was pulled off by his mother. A lot of people wanted him kicked out of the pack. We went to Council ask about it, being relatively inexperienced with these types of disciplinary matters. We scheduled a meeting with the boy's mom, myself, the DL, CM, the UC, The COR/IH, and our Roundtable commissioner for good measure. Time comes for the meeting, everyone from the pack is there. UC doesn't show up, RT Commish doesn't show up, Mom comes with her new boyfriend. He chews us out saying the kid that got attacked should toughen up and he probably had it coming (This guy also thought it was a good idea to bring a 12" knife on a Wolf hike in the local forest preserve). The COR/IH (the pastor of our CO) said the boy reminded him of his own troubled son and that Scouting would be just the thing for him. "All is forgiven" not even a suspension. A couple of families quit over this. Fast forward a couple of months to our Pack's participation in our town's Christmas parade. Our pack is getting staged for the parade. An older woman was parking her car nearby starts to get out. The Scout in question unprovoked, just took off for this car and started punching the woman in the face as she was getting out. Our CM said "that's it" you're out immediately. Council was like "what took so long?" I was like, you guys did nothing to help us before and we got hung out to dry by our COR.

The problem with a lot of the other activities in our area, particularly athletics and marching band, is that it's an all or nothing proposition. The coaches and band directors demand 100% of their time outside of school. Kids feel the need to join travel ball, rec leagues, and local athletic associations, because they won't make the high school team without it. If they don't make that, then they aren't going to get seen by pro-scouts, or college scouts. A lot of these kids have delusions of grandeur and legitimately think NFL scouts are at their pop-warner games. When I was a mere Cub Den Leader, one of my Tigers who made it through the end of Wolf gave up Scouting for football. He's playing on the high school team, but he's also on his 4th concussion and also had a broken ankle.

When my son started as a Tiger, there were 3 dens of 6 - one with kids from one school, one with kids from another close school, and the 3rd was homeschooled and "floaters". By the start of the Bear year, the three dens were down to 1. So, what happened. 8 of the original 18 had left because families moved. 2 left because they were diagnosed with learning disabilities, went to new schools with special programs, and the parents did not want their sons to be left behind because they hadn't finished Wolf. 3 more left because of travel sports - their coaches gave them ultimatums sport or scouts. That left a Bear den of 5. By the end of the Bear year, 1 more moved away, 1 left to join another pack in the area, because his dad was the UC and wanted to join an "accelerated program" that would combine Web 1 and AOL and Boy Scout requirements, so they could join a 'brother troop' as a Tenderfoot in less than a year (not sure if it was legal, particularly with the ages of the boys, but OK). 1 more left and followed that family. So we started Web 1 with 2, my son plus 1 more. We added another Web 1 after a recruitment night. At the end of the year, one of the kids that went to the "accelerated program" came back (not the UC's kid). Picked up 2 more at the start of AOL in the recruiting night. All 6 crossed over at the end of the year to two different troops. 2 have earned Eagle already, 1 is very close (only needs to dot some lower-case "J's" on the application, turn in the paperwork and schedule the BOR). 1 did end up dropping out of Scouts after 6 months. From what I have heard, the last 2 are still going strong and are working through their advancement...so where was I? I think there are often a lot of external factors that affect retention and attrition and there isn't one magic silver bullet that will solve what ails a pack or troop.

Any chance you can get a parent in one of the other dens to be DL, at least on paper? In our Pack, we had a Bear Den with 6 scouts and a set Den Leader, but then he got a new job opportunity, but in taking the job, he quit as DL on the spot. His son stayed around, but due to the demands of the job (expanded hours, conflicting days & times, , he had to drop immediately. None of the other parents in the den would step up. I was CC and rechartering was coming up. I asked each parent individually, and had them lay out their concerns and reasoning. Some parents thought they already did "enough", some parents didn't want to deal with specific kids in the den (one mom had a problem with another mom; one dad had a problem with a different mom). So, I made it an agenda item at the next committee meeting, which was open to the Pack. One Wolf dad that showed up, who was also the previous CC and who's oldest son crossed over three years prior, said he'd take over the Bear den. Problem solved, but I got lucky!

I don't see it as a money grab, but when you do have some Eagle Factory troops in your council, with several leaders that are registered as counselors for literally every merit badge, and whose troop has a number of Scouts that have earned every merit badge, it does raise some eyebrows.

Our council's office and shop used to be located at our camp, which was a good 2 hour+ drive during rush hour. Thankfully they opened a new office and shop much closer and centrally located to the units, so when I have to drop off paperwork or pick things up for our COH, I only have to drive 35 minutes.

I've found that for cross-overs where parents have set up some Scouts' Scoutbook accounts, those permissions sometimes carry over. That's why a thorough review process always needs to be in place. We had one scout that "earned" himself the Chess Merit Badge by marking the requirements complete himself, independent of any Counselor or SM review. Scoutbook showed it as "earned" on his advancement report even though SM or Advancement Chair had not "approved" it.

Scoutbook will allow a youth to mark items as "complete" and it would be up to the Scoutmaster, one of the designated ASM's, or the Advancement Chair to Approve the requirement.

I'd bet that they'd be more than willing to sign off on any Eagle projects that would benefit the diocese or individual parishes.