I'm new to Scouter.com, but have been a lifelong member of one scouting program or another.
I haven't read much of the thread, but this much is clear to me:
If you're talking about Cubs then parents are a necessity
If we're talking about Boy Scouts, then parents just get in the way
I've known lots of scouter/scout fathers and sons, and almost always it results in kids who end up spoiled and feel they can get away with anything because "my dad's on the troop commitee" or "my dad's an ASM".
I noticed on some earlier posts it was said that ScoutPerson was "masquerading" as a Scoutmaster, or something to that effect. That very statement isn't helpful,friendly,courteous,kind,cheerful, or reverant. I'm sure you guys feel you're "being prepared"...but please try to reinforce the ideals you teach in your postings
and "May the Great Scoutmaster of all good Scouts be with us until we meet again"