Just a thought from a new member, mom, maybe helecopter but trying not to. After being both my sons leader in Cub Scouts they are now both in Boy Scouts and off on a campout with out me. That was painful for me. I am anxious to hear their stories when they get back.
We have been at two troops. The first, in a year my son never earned rank, not even Scout. After attending summer camp. Nothing. I was told to back off and let my son figure it out. My son cried and wanted to quit scouts as the boys picked on him. My son has a disability, think of the show Munk. He is afraid of germs and boys rubbed dirty rags in his face. SM did nothing.
New unit, new experience. Yes the SM told me to make my son ask the questions. I learned. Maybe prodded the boy but pleased to see rank, MB and a happy boy volunteering for Assistant Patrol leader.
Guess I am saying please be patient. It is hard for mom's to let go. We appreciate all you guys are doing to help us build our boys in to men.