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  1. I found this website and thought is was very interesting. It is an online copy of Seton's Book of Woodcraft. Enjoy. www.wickiup.com/wickiup/seton/index.html
  2. To fold or not to fold? That is the question. I have a "Ozark Trails" tent. Not a high quality tent, but I still want to NOT destroy it. It says it is made from "uv-poly-titanum", a "durable tent fabric." Of course the instructions say to fold the tent. I hear some about that creating creases that will wear down easily. Do I fold or stuff? Or does it really matter with this low end tent?
  3. Ed, Yep, can't please some people no matter what you do. In the years I've known these folks, I've only seen a handleful of people who they were happy with in scouts or at school. I give this scoutmaster a LOT of credit. I told him I didn't agree with some things I saw, and he seemed very open to talk about it. He is sad he lost some scouts and hopes they do find another troop or start their own. He also thanked me for hanging in there when the going got tough the other day. The adults in this troop admit they are not perfect. They try to not make the same mistake twice. Bottom line is
  4. SagerScout, I've heard some people say Girl Scouts are not AS friendly as BSA about wanting family involvment. Especially at the younger ages. Cub Scouts MUST have a parent on all campouts. Siblings are not only welcomed but encouraged in Cub Scouting. Boy Scouting is different, because it is also teaching independence. I've heard many others also say that Girl Scouts seem to do more thorough background checks than BSA. Can we accurately compare sexual abuse cases between Girl Scouts and Boy Scouts? Aren't most, not all, but most sexual offenders male?
  5. "I understand that this will create problems for some scouts however, the the risk of improper storage and distribution and the expectation that a leader was an amateur pharmacist created to many opportunities for the scout to be improperply medicated and was a liability problem for the leaders. " I do understand this. That's why the one scout did not go, the parents know the leaders most likely do not know how to mix and administer the medications. For a weekend, often the parents can go. I do hope that summer camps have approriately trained people to handle the kids with very special ne
  6. My son's troop has the older scouts doing most of the teaching and signing off for the younger scouts. Main problem right now is there are so many new scouts. At the troop meeting, the older boys led the new scouts in their physical fitness requirements. At the campout there were 18 new scouts. A couple of ASM's did the joining requirements, some knots and the totin chip class with the new boys. Not all the older scouts were on the campout, and the ones there got to take a break while the younger ones were busy learning. I think with that many new scouts at one time, the ASM teaching the t
  7. The PL has been with the troop for a year, a PL for a month. I think everyone felt he would do best trying out his leadership with the new scout patrol. The older boys would just ignore him, he has problems communicating and relating to his peers. The older scouts were keeping to themselves and not nearby. The Scoutmaster and ASMs were within 100 feet of the 2 new scout patrols. The Scoutmaster realized we (parents of 3 new boys) were not real happy on Saturday. He made it clear we had as much authority as he did. He encouraged us to go inspect the ice chest and food cleanliness situation
  8. My son will not remember to take his medicine, neither do most ADHD kids. Shoot, I have a hard time remembering to take my meds when away from home and my regular routine. When we are talking about 11 year old's, most will not remember to take the medicine and that could be a serious problem. I would prefer that an adult handle the medicines. The medicines for ADHD are basically speed. Other kids take them they are going to get high. Also, I know a boy who just joined Boy Scouts who takes a lot of medicine throughout the day for a kidney disease. Some of this must be refrigerated and
  9. This may have gone smoother if the parents had seen the troop in action BEFORE the campout. They were disappointed in the fact the Patrol Leader had "no experience". Well, that's true but at some point he has to get some. The scoutmasters realized they should have had the troop guides over in that area being more involved. Then you get into the discussion of will the troop guide let the PL do his job or will the troop guide just take over. Some boys are just going to stand aside and let the troop guide take over. The upset parents had only been to one troop visit at which we spent t
  10. Ed, After this weekend, the troop is considering not letting new parents go camping. These boys would never camp if that was the case. The parents would not let them out of their sight. I once heard it takes about 3 months for a boy to get used to Boy Scouts and about 1 year for the parents. I really understand that after this weekend! I was a little more prepared because I've been reading and researching for the past year the differences between Cub Scouting and Boy Scouting.
  11. I thought of this thread title after a weekend camping with my son's troop. Some parents got very upset and left early with their boys. They are going to join another troop where they can have more control. We all know one of the adults at the other troop. I know the beginning of this thread was about a scoutmaster who is ruling the troop with an iron hand and not following BSA ways. This is more about what some people would say is a "lousy scoutmaster" who is labeled that because he is following BSA ways. I was frustrated and upset at times over the weekend. But once I stepped back
  12. Luckily our community sports program caught on that their candy sales was losing money. Selling candy does not have anything to do with playing baseball, no matter how you look at it. They were requiring each player to take a $40 box of candy and the association made $20. If someone had 3 kids, they had $120 worth of candy to sell! Also, every other house in the neighborhood had this candy to sell. Now you can "opt out" of the candy sales. I just give them the $20 and be done. For some people who have the extended family or the co-workers who will buy everything, they can still sell. F
  13. We get 40% profit if the unit has 2 people attend all the district planning meetings related to popcorn. The council and district gets about 30%. Don't forget they have expenses too -- training, paperwork, salaries, camps, etc. I don't like the units saying "look Johnny sold $400 worth, we want everybody to sell that much."
  14. I didn't mind going door to door with my son with the popcorn. It really irks me the stuff the schools want everybody to sell, it is overpriced knick-knacks. I made my son do the talking as we went to the neighbors. When we delivered, I had him go to the door, make change and mark the names off the list. We stuck to our part of the neighborhood, and didn't go on the streets where we knew their were other Scouts. We also didn't go to houses of people that have said no in the past. Tdyer, wait until next year and you will hear "I was just wondering when you would be back around, I was just
  15. I agree with Chippewa about the patrol name. Give them the pictures of patrol badges available and let them choose one. That will help keep them focused. I saw my son's troop this weekend in action. The Patrol Leader's used the patrol's name to call for assembly. The kids and adults referred to groups by their patrol name. They did everything by patrol -- set up, tent, cook, eat, clean up, suffer the punishment for NOT cleaning up. I think this will help them form together as a team.
  16. If these 7 have their Arrow of Light they should be able to say from memory the Oath, Law, Motto and Slogan. The joining requirements should be a piece of cake for them. The "scariest" part is that Scoutmaster conference. They don't know what that means but they know that school conferences usually aren't good! I just got back from a campout with my son's troop. This was the first or second campout for most of the boys. They aren't as concerned with getting things signed off as with getting their Totin' Chip. They want to get a hold of a knife and axe. They like to tie knots. They like to
  17. I agree. Popcorn is the only thing I will even mention to relatives, friends, co-workers or neighbors. Last fall our pack had a "booth" in front of the local grocery store one Saturday. I heard it went well. We did not make it because my son got sick. I think they kids got as many donations as they did sales. Many people just gave them a couple of bucks to help out. The troop we just joined has a huge yard sale every spring. The troop and the boy's accounts benefit. The boy's sell popcorn and get all the profits put in their individual accounts. Not everybody can sell the popcorn a
  18. Since the "brag" vest or jacket is not part of the official uniform, it has been my understanding the boys can put whatever they want on it. I try to encourage my son to see that it is some how related to Scouting. As a Cub Scout, that covered a lot of the things we did. The state parks where we live sell some cool looking patches. They also sell a patch that says "Georgia State Park Camper" then little ones to go with it that have the name of the Park on it. I let him put those on his brag vest because family camping is related to Scouting, and we usually were meeting some Cub requirement eve
  19. Now that I've had time to catch my breath from the weekend camping trip, I have time to think about some of what I saw. I watched along with a few other new parents as our son's patrol struggled. The PL has been a new scout for 1 year. He is PL for one of 2 new scout patrols. He is a challenge scouts in many ways. His assistant is also a challenge scout. They both have ADHD. So they are distracting each other! They are good kids and trying but if anyone speaks to the PL he forgets what he was doing. Much less try to keep up with what 9 other kids are doing. It was painful to watch.
  20. Ed, I agree with you. It's not that I don't trust other scouts or the parents. I think the boy gains a lot more by working with the other adults. Also, I have more patience with someone else's child than my own. Because of human nature, there are times when I've been working with a group of boys that included my son and a personal fight started between me and him. That doesn't help anyone and distracts from the other boys. This weekend camping, my son wanted me to go ask one of the other adults to sign off on something. He thought I could just tell them he had done it and they would sign.
  21. This troop also does the "you will ride with adults only" trick. It seems to work and seems very reasonable to me. I even threatened my son with it. I told him I had no problem handing him over to the Scoutmaster who would find him a seat home. Then I found out the scouts wanted to ride with me because of the a/c in my van that was lacking from the other van. AH HA -- I have bribery material!
  22. "Socratic Scouting, it works!!! " I like it too. I kept hearing "but I cleaned last time, I didn't do it." Finally I asked "who will be in trouble if the dishes aren't clean." A slight pause then someone said "all of us". RIGHT! So what do you think you should do? A few said "do it ourselves". I pointed them to the patrol members who had wandered off. Also, looking back I realize I should have also taken away the chairs that were in the area and everything else that was distracting them. I caught two of them playing with the first aid kit!
  23. I survived a weekend of camping with the Troop! I watched carefully and tried to be objective. I tried to tread carefully also. After awhile, the Scoutmaster made it clear to me and a few other new parents that we were welcome to go help lead where we say it. We could go inspect kitchen areas and ice chests for safety (we had seen a ice chest with no ice for the raw hamburgers). Only once did the Scoutmaster ask me to step away from the boys. Once he saw I was not doing for them, I think he started trusting me more. I saw the dish tossing and the pushups. When the right time presented
  24. The troop my son joined has the same "policy" as Ed. If there is anyway to avoid it, parents do not sign off on their own son. I agree this is best. It helps the boy learn to work with other adults and avoids any possible issues of "unfairness".
  25. sctmom

    Full Uniform

    As Paul Harvey would say "Now for the rest of the story..." In my son's class there are 3 other Scouts. They really don't like my son much and ignore him a lot. He is not as mature as they are and they try to act "cool". One of them asked him "Why are you wearing THAT?" He replied "Because I WANT to." Then I found out that kid went home, told his parents that my son was in full uniform and that they MUST take him to Scout Shop the next day so he could have a full uniform before we left for the weekend campout! I did tell my son this and he had the biggest grin on his face!
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