It is the same within my council. Every change in Adult Positions, a new App is required.
Have your husband send an email to the CC & COR stating that he is not the CM, but are Den Leaders. You are not forced to do anything.
Time for you both, if possible to go to Roundtable and find the District Commissioner and let them know what is going on. You cannot take over the Pack.
There is training within the District for all positions. Go to them and tell the Pack Leaders that you are.
The CC & COR are not doing any service to the youth of the Pack. They need to move on. Parents need to step-up and take on positions within the Pack.
Hence, my note about finding the District Commissioner. They can get you a Unit Commissioner to help get your pack pointed in the right direction. They also can get the District Training Chair/Team involved and get everyone trained. The District Exec can look over the Charter and see what's going on with that.