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Welcome to the forums, G.B. Let your CC and your COR know the details just in case they see your name in any public notices. unless hey have a thing against traffic scofflaws on the run, you should be fine.

Agreed. These kids are finding hiking and camping independently to be truly important. So, they make spending that $20 on a weekend in the woods a priority over a registration card in their pocket -- the cost of which goes to background check a cadre of adults who they don't need or want around anyway. They pick adventure over Venturing. What a shock! You depression era folks can go say "been there, done that", but that's RS's point. Most of us did scouting when there was a slush fund (inherited, or hours learning the family business, mom's fundraisers, or working odd jobs, it really doesn't matter from a boy's perspective) that could cover the cost of every activity a boy had time to join. But, what I'm seeing is: teens' free time has remained fixed (maybe grown 'cause fewer have religious obligations), their school time stayed fixed (maybe a little more summer prep- work, or lots more for the geniuses who take advanced placement, or the flunkies who are assigned to summer remedial classes). Anyway, they have about the same time to dedicate to extracurriculars as before. And most of them want to pick a balanced menu. However; their earnings potential has decreased, while participation fees have increased. That means their calculus includes a time-per-dollar calculation that very few of my buddies ever made. About the only thing that seems to contained cost per time involved: video games.

R.S. - That is happening again with the rise in registration fees. I have a number of crew who drop and sign up part-year when there is an activity they want to attend.

Here's a question for you to get beyond the "kicking around in my head" phase. Ask it of the SPL: Do your boys have a desire to be specialists? Do some take pride in being the troop marksman, others the athlete, others the mechanic, others the scientist, others the artist? If the SPL says yes, then follow-up with this question: Do you think the PLC would like to come up with a way for boys to prove they own such titles by earning a particular set of related non-required badges? Should it be something that can be put on the temporary insignia parts of the uniform? If yes, then build from there. Your boys might decide against more bling on their uniforms. If so, maybe suggest a wall space where you would put pictures/avatars of the boys as they succeed under a given category. A poster like this would serve the dual purpose of outlining the MBs by categories your boys are proud of and then maybe at the bottom have a note, "If you've liked earning these MBs, you might want to look into the requirements for the National ___ Award." Let us know what you come up with. (Links with pictures would be lovely.)

Temporary insignia may be placed on the right pocket, or the back of MB sashes. Encourage your boys to take advantage of those in their award design. An easy one would be ribbons with a button hole.

Jim, hang in there. Clearly some parents didn't get the memo. It sounds like you spend a lot of time trying to be polite. There's nothing wrong with asking "So, what will you do to help ?" Give the parent a call and let them know that you'll miss their boy and when they have time to contribute to the life of the pack, you'd be happy to see them. Or don't. Tell the DL her life just got a little easier.

Or, you could teach your son how to respectfully disagree with these old farts. He could request to talk to the SM. Or since he had his SMC's. He could request a BoR. At the BoR, he can say what about this process he felt was unfair. Based on your description ... 1. Knots, well yeah his bad. Every 1st class scout should know his knots, but now that he does, he feels qualified to take his patrol hiking and camping. 2. He finds it hard to believe that misplacing the titles of two declarations betrays any unwillingness to live by those declarations. 3. Sock selection was added to the requirements, and he thinks any objective measure of scout spirit would have nothing to do with standard-issue socks. Furthermore, it undermines the SPL's leadership by denying him the privilege of organizing uniform inspection according to the BSA inspection sheet . In other words, it is highly unlikely that this level of critical spirit of uniforms is, well, uniform. Now, Mama bear, with all due respect. This is your boy's journey, and just like in a sport with a bad referee at a game, a screaming parent just winds up ejected from the field, and their team given a penalty. (Can ya' tell I'm gearing up for announcing tonight?) If he doesn't want to be that confrontational, then ask him if he still wants to be considered a 1st class scout by the folks in this troop? If so, tell him it looks like the only way for him is through this problem (i.e. keep trying). Maybe ask for the 4th SMC with all 3 ASMs!

Have them draw their organizational chart. Compare it to the one in the troop committee challenge manual. That said, if someone wants one of the jobs, let them have it.

SN, my specific suggestion to the GS mom was to have a couple of guys set up a demonstration that she could walk the cadets through and the boys could tell stories about what works (or not) for them. Conversation fell flat. I really don't know what's rattling around in peoples' heads, so I decided to not press the subject until I heard other folks' experience. The young lady is one of my crew, and she knows the topic from from older siblings and friends (mostly venturers), but never had time to participate in the activity. The stars haven't lined up with her and my female adult leaders. So, the cadets will have a 45 minute lecture which will actually be pretty good. But, decades of girls getting "pretty good" generates a future majority of non-participants. Tried to get my crew president to fit in a "practice day" with her last month, but again: time constraints and the general weirdness of an advisor saying, "You should call her." I think that "plan B suggestion" came off as "too much, too little, to late." I guess since our youth have not bought into Venturing awards, the notion of helping each other with cross-organization projects like these sounds alien. Whatever. I'm really not trying to figure out the kids here. I'm trying to figure out the adults and how far up the chain this attitude goes.

Well, s717, if the young lady is an avid outdoor cook and nobody in our troop has ever tried anything mor complicated than Pop tarts and Ramen .... mOst definitely yes! Som #2 and I just heard this story. If any of you in WI have an opportunity to invite this young lady to talk to your unit, open your doors to her!

Actually they lined up a male venturer for the aquatics area. He was the only one available with guard certification. This not an issue where safety will be compromised. It's more a matter of lining up a teacher from personal experience.

Some of my venturers are organizing an awesome camporee for their GS district. They are doing a great job. They asked me to help out with map and compass ... seeing that I have spent more time "getting found" than anyone they know, it's a good choice on their part. However, one of the topics that they will cover is not in their field of expertise. I suggested to their GS leader that some of our male venturers might be better suited to instruct a topic, but she was very could to the idea. Instead one of the girls will teach it based on her book-learning. Previously, female venturers have taught this topic to cadettes at a community park, so I know this isn't a political thing between Venturing and GSUSA. I know it's not an unrelated adult male kind of thing because, well, I'm helping. I know it's not about letting boys help with Gold Awards in general because I've seen other projects invite boys and girls to help. Is there anything on the "GS books" against letting a better qualified youth of the opposite sex instruct? Could this be a local thing? I am just trying to figure out where the lines are drawn.

It's like I have an evil twin. Question ... do any of your boys want to be den chiefs? I think you know where I'm going with this.

KDD, if this matters to your son. (It may not. He may want to keep his new buddies all for himself!) Here's what you do ... 1. Talk to the lodge officers about any upcoming service opportunities. 2. Ask your son which ones he thinks would be cool. 3. Have him call his buddies next day and say "Hey, since you bailed on me today, I didn't know what to sign us up for, but I thought it would be cool if we did ___ together, so I put your name down. Hope you don't mind!" 4. Direct mom to this forum and encourage her to submit a topic "Pushy scout voluntold my son!" Other scouters on this forum can take it from there.

Fellowship time is no longer valued. "Did you like your time?" Mom asks while surfing her phone. "Yes! Great people, I really felt welcome." Son replies. "What did you do those last few hours?" Mom asks when the kitten video ends. "Not much. Watched a movie, chewed the fat." Son half-heartedly replies to a half-hearted conversation. "That's nice ..." replies Mom absently while checking any new recipes. "Yeah." Son says walking over to the game console to see if the latest mod for World of Warcraft comes out. Mom thinks to herself, "Well, that group is a real time waster. Gotta get the boy into something more engaging. Oh, look! A new kitten video!"

Now an unsuspecting scoutmaster haunted by this latest batch of crossovers ... That would be a scary flick!

We did this for a while when we had large numbers and lots of dads who really liked to camp. It really only lasted for a couple of outings. The advantage was it actually got us out of the boys' hair. We didn't mind being accountable to the SPL. And we could cook up a storm! The disadvantage was not every adult wanted to uniform and nobody really wanted to compete with the boys, so we disbanded before we could create our own patch and flag. Boys appreciate us being available to assist them. They appreciate us doing our own creative things. They don't appreciate us imitating them.

My opinion from the cheap seats: a UC's usefulness depends on the unit's interest in external inputs, the SM's availability/ability to respond to external inputs, the UC's network of inputs, and the UC's awareness of his own boundary's. Those are a lot of factors beyond knocking on three doors every week, and a UC is only going to commit to where those things are in place. Districts with lots of units lakcking those factors are gonna have a hard time getting scouters to volunteer as UCs. If your unit is in such a district, unless you're failing, you won't see your UC much at all.

SGeek, Your question was about handling future instances. So that's what I answered. Some further thoughts ... Of course the other issue is patrol method and camp etiquette. In a perfect world your troop would have about 10 patrols 300' apart. It'd be nice if you always had that 200 by 300 yard postage stamp of land! That distance makes it pretty clear to a boy where he does or does not belong. But, I suspect you all are usually crammed pretty tight ... and by the sound of it, this was summer camp and therefore even more crowded. In these circumstances, boys need to be taught camp etiquette. Simply put, a scout is courteous and asks "permission to enter" even if it's just passing through a common path. Your older boys will model this automatically. But from day 1 they need to explain to the boys how walk through camp. Really and truly this applies when boys visit from patrol to patrol as well. Also explain to the boys that when they are visiting other camps, to go nowhere unescorted ('cept maybe the latrine). As for handling the current situation ... I wouldn't tell the father to "pound sand" as 2c suggests. I would explain to the father and the boy that he won't have to wait until the next CoH to receive his patch. You will order it as soon as the BoR is satisfied and have your SPL award it at the next meeting after it comes in. A boy may certainly hold rank before being recognized for it at a CoH I would still apologize to the boy for making clear that this might not be a straightforward BoR. Judge any advice from a district advancement chair on how well he/she has advised you in the past. Balance that with the level of trust you have in your committee ... which seems to be high. Meanwhile, for a teachable moment, ask your PLC if bureaucracy got in the way of justice in this case.

Now you're putting words into his mouth, Stosh. I suspect if the boys took it in rotation (the owl handling taps; the lark, reveille), Os448 would shell out for two patches. He might count time served as 1/2 the duration per boy in office, but that's a different thread ...

Yeah. Stand by your boy. There is no way he should have to answer to a bunch of adults. Have the SPL and PL take time to talk with the boy THAT day. Tell the blowhard SM that if he has issues, he can have his SPL take it up with your SPL. Since you didn't suspend the scout, and if wandering off is a chronic problem that the boy has, you need to prep him for a rough board of review.

Yah, hmm. I intended the question to be something "in between the lines". Based on some previous posts, scouters were inferring about what qualifies as a good project. (A few years ago there was an obsession over man-hours.) I'm not trying to be judgmental here, but if you don't have Life (and lower rank) scouts coming to you asking about project ideas, you're just weird. And if the only reply is some quote from a workbook, you're even stranger. This question not a policy quiz, it is about how you advise your candidates in the context of how your troop runs. Although he clearly didn't vote, based on Stosh's replies I'd put him with #4. In other words, his troop should always be doing projects. Boys should always be leading them. At some point a boy will lead a project just like he and his buddies always have, only this time a workbook gets filled out and he has it (along with his career as Life scout) reviewed by a bunch of old farts. I personally have been at #3, but wonder if I should move to #4. We have older boys, many of whom have ignored advancement. Some wont be Life by age 17.5, so they won't be required to be a project lead if that's the only time we let them. A healthy step for us may be asking a 1st class scout to take point in, say, Scouting for Food. Our adult who runs it would then take a back seat. For NJ's sake, I'll try and change the survey to allow multiple selections.

Then the letter should come from the Skipper. It's good that you all are sharing the leadership burden. But boys will be equally humiliated if they think they have to face down a committee of adults.

If the boy wants to survey invalids, let him!