Hey all, I can't believe how many responses I'm getting to this and I appreciate all of them! Here's my quandry, I guess...Cubmaster and Charter Rep asked that I be CC, which I am. I have no clue what my role is supposed to be. I'm under the impression that I have the authority to take care of issues with CM, but when I try I get blown off totally. I tend to be too nice about things I think, and didn't get taken to seriousely.
CM ordained himself Popcorn Chair, which I know isn't supposed to happen but I was told that with such a small group they make exceptions. So, I'm still trying to figure all that out!
Then with the sale at the store....We only have two stores in this town and by taking both stores the same day for the sale, which granted..the pack gets their 30%, but the two kids(their kids)that were there got their personal credit for it too.
That wouldn't be an issue if it had been a "den" activity or if all had been made aware so they could participate as well. They invited no one but me and my child and that was the day before. I didn't participate as I didn't feel right about it at all.
I, as CC, contacted both stores afterward to set up group sales(as, like I said earlier, parents were peeved) and was told by both that they had already opened their stores to the cubby popcorn sales and no!!!
It wouldn't have bothered me as much if he would have been "plainclothes". But the fact that he went in there with his cubmaster gear on, as far as I'm concerned, gave people the impression that it was all going to the pack. The Charter Rep was peeved about it and the parents that I spoke to said mostly that if they had known they would have liked to participate with their kids. Now, as to not cause too many problems I didn't pose my questioning to parents as an attack on CM. I simply said I couldn't make the popcorn sale at store and did they by chance participate.
Oh, also I did address the rudeness thing to him and he wrote out a very unapologetic apology to send to parents and told me that he didn't give a s*** if parents were p**sed and if they didn't see things his way then their kids could just not do anything!!!! I'm beside myself about what to do about this! I spoke with council and Charter Rep and they told me to just moniter the situation and keep them updated!
I guess that's all my ranting for now. I'm going to have to check into the fundraising in uniform thing too, I haven't heard that before, but then I'm pretty new to this!!!
Thanks much to everyone!!