For years, our troop has had ASMs sit on Eagle board of reviews. This year, I became the Eagle Advisor and discovered this is not allowed. When I told my first Life scout some of his BOR candidates were not eligible, his father, the scoutmaster, became livid. He has accused me of setting a double standard and says his son is held to a higher standard in spite of the fact that this requirement is written in several BSA policy manuals and was presented to over 50 people at a troop meeting.
What would happen to the former Eagles if this was escalated to the district or council level?
How can I explain to an irrational parent that everyone will begin playing by the same rules?
I fear he, as scoutmaster, will retaliate against my own son who is also preparing for his Eagle board. Should we do anything proactive to prevent this?
YiS