UPDATE: I am the Charter Org Rep and the father of the victim. I was placed in an exremely difficult position. I reported the incident per my oath as a scout leader to or charter org executive, senior pastor who unfortunatley is very new to scouting. I excused myself from admimistering punishment (Although the district commisioner said I had the autoriity to do so when I met with him, the DE, and the OA chapter guide this evening). I was counting on my senior pastor to recommend a harsher penalty than what the committee chair administered (A verbal warning that this was his first reported offense and this behavior will not be tolerated.
As I said I met with the district commissoner, district executive and OA Chapter Guide. My goal was to help my charter org try to salvage the troop by involving the district in retraining the adult leadership and fostering a "safe haven" enviroment that has zero tolerance for bad behavior. I would like to thank you for providing this forum as your input. It has supported our stand to make noise and helped us with making clear good BSA decisions.