fotoscout,
I don't agree. Families defiance to wearing the uniform correctly? Never seen this before.
If he is never "up front" then he is never "up front". He doesn't deserve to be for this. Maybe he will be "up front" for something else. Maybe not. Either way, he is not being embarrassed or humiliated by anyone. If he was "up front" because he was not in proper uniform then your statement would be true.
Not everyone will be "up front". And there is nothing wrong with that!
Ed Mori
1 Peter 4:10