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>>3) In my short time in the cubbie world, it has become apparent that a couple things tend to pull Web-II away from scouting. First, Jr. High is when boys get REALLY serious about sports or other school activities. Second, Webelos is a limbo rank IMHO. They are not old enough to do many of the higher adventure BSA things, but they are old enough to think the games / crafts done by the Tigers and Wolves are completely lame and boring....

>>I know that at least was part of the reason that JCPenney Co. quit selling scout stuff;they got threats from certain groups about boycotts and negative publicity.

I would like to know what the scouts say? How do you know what to fix if you don't know what is broken. Sometimes it has nothing to do with scouting, it's just boys acting badly. Barry

Officially (FAA), sailplanes are their own class. And looking at the intent of the text, Im not sure how it falls. I imagine the restrictions are based from risk. Sailplanes are not considered a risky aircraft to fly, but it has its limits not having an engine. Interesting. Barry

""Back in 2000 I was in Philmont on top of Baldy. A t-storm was rolling in and I (ASM) announced I was seeking cover and all the boys that felt it necessary were to follow me down to the tree line. About half the boys did. The SM and 2 other ASM's blew me off and laughed."" >>>Gotta love these distorted observations by those who don't comprehend the point. First of all the crew members that are not allowed to participate are those that have not acquired the necessary skills to do the job safely. It has nothing to do with "badly trained". On the contrary, the high standard of training is what is keeping the boys from risk.

>>Cancelin' events because of possible snow and ice on da roads? Southerners should really learn how to drive, eh?

>>"A storm front is moving in. We are well equipped for the weather but there is a 70% chance of an ice storm. The roads may become skating rinks and dangerous. We are scheduled to pack up and leave tomorrow morning. Do we leave early to avoid potential (but not certain) dangerous driving conditions tomorrow morning or stick it out?"

>>The purpose of adult leaders is to mentor and assist where needed, not run their own camping trip and let the boys flounder continually, although occasional floundering can be it's own learning experience too

Hi Sandspur I'm not sure of Stoshes point other than giving an example of a worse case scenerio of a badly trained crew. In reality I think these kinds of situations and examples like Stoshes are rare. I can only think of one situation in my many years of scouting where I had to use my SM title to force a direction and that only had to do with transportation to camp. These things are rare because most folks are reasonable. Still, you can leave it to a group, somebody has to take responsibility. Usually the somebody has enough experience and understanding of the folks involved to have a good idea of the troops limitations. I think you want a decision by consensus, and while I think good leaders listen to all the concerns, the person taking responsibility still has to make a decision. I found that consensus decisions typically only delay actions until somebody does finally stands up to take the responsibility. And the more folks included in the discussion, the worse it gets. I learned to keep such discussion limited to three or four of the most trusted. But let me just say, most of us in this position do not take the responsibility lightly. My wife will tell you that the stress of responsibility aged me while I was SM. She use to say that she knew when we were close to leaving for summer camp or a high adventure wilderness trek because I was very cranky. Most of us are just as concerned for your son as we are for our own. Interesting discussion because it raises concerns in situation that I think are very rare. The BSA does a pretty good job in guiding the troop in the risk of different activities. Barry

>>What a lot of scouters fail to recognize is that the basic core of what scouting is and has been for the last 100 years is archaic and irrelevant to todays youth techno centered and self centered exsistence.

>>When I family camp it is not the same as when I scout camp. When I scout camped as a Boy Scout it is not the same as when I scout camp as a ScoutMaster. I can do many different emphasis on camping, but not at the same time. BSA needs to learn this process. Until BOY Scouts of America becomes Scouts of America, I'm going to assume the program is oriented to the boys and not their families.

>>I do realize that I am going to have to talk with the parents of this particular scout, but I feel bad that I lost my cool.

I wish I had better wisdom in this, but I think the short of it is that it won't end until someone gets in his face and/or you get this guy away from you. Been there and done that. In fact I lost a troop to this guy. Looking back on it, the only resolution between us was separation. Logically I'm with the Beavaher in that the elder statesmen needs to have a word with this guy and keep having words until something changes. He is who he is and you need a larger force to counter him. There is another part of me that likes the suggestion of pushing him to take on the Venture Crew and getting out of your way. My experience with a couple these guys is that not much will change until you get this guy away from your program. If he is the kind of person I think he is, he will jump at the chance to raise himself into the bright lights. The Venture Crew will start well from his energy to prove himself, but not his great leadership. As his enthusiasm wanes, so will the Crew program, but these kind of folks are generally open to new leadership at that point. Good luck with this because I know it can eat you up. Don't let him take away loving this scouting stuff from you. Barry

I remember once talking with a DE about the challenges of his job. He explained that volunteer organizations like scouting tend to get a lot of bosses because many volunteers dont have any training or experience in leadership or group management to understand the difference. He said something like; its little people doing big peoples jobs with little peoples skills. I think everyone of us know of somebody unqualified that takes on the leadership role more to push their own personal agenda (ego) than to help boys. Probably human nature, but like Eamonn, I cant imagine telling adults when they have to go to bed. If they can't treat adults like adults, how can they possbilty treat the boys any better? But then I look at lights out as the time to respect those sleeping, not the time to go to sleep. I enjoy the site of two scouts staying up late looking at stars and whispering among themselves. My dilemma would be deciding whether to join them or stay away so as not to risk spoiling their experience. Barry

Foil dinners are an easy one pot meal that each scout can customize for their own taste. Barry

I've been to several camps and none of them had very good pathfinder type programs, so I can understand that. This camp may be different and have a fantastic pathfinder program, but I fully agree with gwd-scouter that the bigger issue is that by not hanging with the other scouts in her troop, it could be a lonely boring week for this scout. Barry

>>And I always thought the folks wanted me along because of my conversational repartee and sparkling personality

>>The moment the south seceded from America, they ceased to be Americans and their flag became a symbol of the rebellion. We should honor it as we would any enemy nation's flag.

We also get up around 7:00am, but I always try and make sure someone like gwd-scouter comes along to make sure the coffee is ready. God bless those early risers. Barry

>>If a tent is still quiet after 5 minutes or so, they usually get a personal wake-up. It's awful hard to keep sleeping with a bugle being blasted two feet from your ear. I don't recall ever having someone sleep-in past a personal bugle call.

This is one of those interesting little topics where I unexpectedly learn something new about folks on this forum I hadn't realized before. Adult run has a whole new meaning. Barry

Non cotton socks will solve most of the blister and comfort problems. They will keep the feel cooler and dryer, which is the major cause of blisters. As for keeping them clean, well that is generally up to the his tent mate. Barry

You wrote that at 4:00 am gwd-scouter. You are officially a Master Scouter. I love this scouting stuff. Barry

I learned that there are some Type A folks who can handle two jobs and do them well. I was not one of them and they wore me out just watching them. I like the CM/ADL suggestion. Also, what may happen is the adult who takes on the job of assisting you at the den level may just take on the whole job of Den Leader. That is if you are willing to let them. Sounds like you folks have a fun pack. Barry

>>She asked if I had taken woodbadge (Mrs. X had), I told her no. She acted like I was a second rate scouter because I don't have this training. I ran circles around Mrs. X and her woodbadge training, if she was an example of what woodbadge teaches I would never take the course.