I am new to these forums so please forgive my naetivity, but here goes. Seems to me you can't survive in this day and age without being a multitasker (Husband, Father, Son, Worker, Scouter
Knights of Columbus, School Board member, girl Scout leader....). The secret with anything is moderation and knowing your own limits and capabilities. In a town called Perfect there are always enough Scout leaders for every position.
Living in reality, for scouting to exist in many areas unfortunateley people must wear several hats. I remember when I was in High School, I had several Scout meetings a week up to 5 for my troop, OA meetings for both the chapter and the Lodge, district Roundtable(SPL's were invited and ran the training program while the adults went to the business side) I could not get enough of it then or now. I am now a Unit Commissioner and I am costantly bugging my DE with what I can help with next. Sometime between my youth days and when I walked back inth the scout office to volunteer I graduated college(took 18 years but I did it!!), spent 8 years in the military and started a family,7 kids so far and hopefully counting. Here is my point if I have one: You have to realize your limitations, Communicate constantly with your Spouse, Family, other Scout Leaders, Bosses and coworkers, ask for permission at times and forgiveness others, Know when to say yes and more importantly when to say no. My wife is Brownie leader for my 3rd grader with 2 more girls ready to join GS in the future and I have become a UC. these jobs help us find balance between family and work. I encourage her and she me. When my 2 youngest boys become scouting age I pray that I can be their den leader, cubmaster and scout leader. If they dont want to be in scouting then I will still do those things and still attend the events that they are involved in. All in moderation.
I think that a UC can also be a unit leader but not for his own unit, my district tries to recruit new UC's from our larger and successful troops committees and also talk to the parents of prospective eagle scouts when they come to BOR's.
The better you are at recruiting the less the number of people who need to wear multiple hats.
Ok Enough rambling, hopefully one day all parents will find the willingness, time and energy to be involved in their kids lives again and volunteer to be their scout leaders and we can all live in a town called perfect..
YIS - Eagle81