Yeah, I can understand.
I'm not gonna come down so hard on adult leaders who mean well.
Fully agree. It's less acceptable and more understandable. More along the lines of we learn from our mistakes. It's hard to learn how to behave or respond until you have been in the situation.
Being blind-sided brings out some bad stuff. That's okay.
This is absolutely my number one concern. I've seen it happen multiple times.
I am concerned that there will be that able-bodied scout who gets tested one too many times and will grow to avoid advancement (or scouting in general) because they think the BoR is petty.